The First Call: Standardized Intake Forms and Data Integrity
The Perfect First Call Success Story
A Nevada funeral home implemented structured intake forms and reduced arrangement meeting time from 2.5 hours to 90 minutes. Complete first-call information capture eliminated 89% of follow-up questions and increased family satisfaction scores by 31%. The systematic approach transformed a stressful process into a supportive experience.
The first call sets the tone for your entire relationship with a grieving family. Standardized intake procedures ensure you capture complete information while demonstrating professionalism and compassion during the most difficult conversation families will have.
Essential Information Categories
Decedent Information
3-5 minutesRequired Fields
- Full legal name
- Date of birth
- Date of death
- Social Security number
- Place of death
- Attending physician
Business Impact
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Next of Kin Details
2-3 minutesRequired Fields
- Primary contact name
- Relationship to decedent
- Phone numbers (multiple)
- Email address
- Mailing address
- Authorization status
Business Impact
Critical - Legal authority verification
Immediate Needs
3-4 minutesRequired Fields
- Body location
- Removal urgency
- Preferred meeting time
- Budget considerations
- Religious/cultural requirements
- Special circumstances
Business Impact
High - Service planning foundation
Preliminary Preferences
2-3 minutesRequired Fields
- Burial vs cremation
- Service preferences
- Cemetery information
- Veteran status
- Organ donation status
- Autopsy requirements
Business Impact
Medium - Planning preparation
Common Intake Mistakes and Solutions
Rushing the conversation
Reduces errors by 85%Consequence: Missed critical information, need for multiple callbacks
Solution: Allow 15-20 minutes minimum, use structured approach
Failing to verify legal authority
Eliminates 95% of authorization problemsConsequence: Authorization disputes, potential legal issues
Solution: Always confirm next-of-kin status and documentation
Not documenting special circumstances
Prevents 90% of preparation issuesConsequence: Service day surprises, family dissatisfaction
Solution: Specific questions about medical devices, conditions
Inconsistent information gathering
Improves completion rate to 98%Consequence: Incomplete records, processing delays
Solution: Standardized forms used by all staff
Compassionate Communication Scripts
Compassionate Opening
Purpose: Establish empathy and professionalism
"I'm very sorry for your loss. My name is [Name], and I'm here to help you through this difficult time. I understand this is overwhelming, and I'll guide you through everything step by step."
Implementation Note: Speak slowly, allow for emotional responses
Information Explanation
Purpose: Set expectations for the conversation
"I need to gather some basic information to begin helping your family. This will take about 15 minutes, and you can take breaks anytime you need to. Everything we discuss is confidential."
Implementation Note: Reassure about time commitment and privacy
Authority Verification
Purpose: Confirm legal right to make arrangements
"To ensure I'm speaking with the right person, can you tell me your relationship to [deceased name]? Are you the next of kin or authorized to make funeral arrangements?"
Implementation Note: Document relationship and authority clearly
Transition to Details
Purpose: Move to factual information gathering
"Now I'll ask for some specific details about [deceased name]. These help us handle everything properly and with dignity. Please let me know if you need any question repeated or clarified."
Implementation Note: Maintain gentle, patient tone throughout
Sample Intake Form Template
Sacred Grounds Funeral Home - First Call Intake
Date/Time of Call: _____________
Staff Member: _____________
Call Duration: _____________
Caller Name: _____________
Relationship: _____________
Call Back Number: _____________
DECEDENT INFORMATION
Full Legal Name: _____________________
Date of Birth: _______________________
Date of Death: _______________________
Social Security #: ____________________
Place of Death: _______________________
Attending Physician: ___________________
Cause of Death: ______________________
Autopsy Required: □ Yes □ No □ Unknown
NEXT OF KIN / AUTHORIZED PERSON
Full Name: ___________________________
Relationship: _________________________
Primary Phone: _______________________
Secondary Phone: _____________________
Email Address: ________________________
Mailing Address: ______________________
_____________________________________
Legal Authority Verified: □ Yes □ No
IMMEDIATE NEEDS
Current Location of Deceased: _______________
Removal Needed: □ Immediately □ Within 24 hrs □ No rush
Preferred Arrangement Time: ________________
Budget Range: □ Under $5K □ $5-10K □ $10-15K □ $15K+ □ Discuss later
Religious/Cultural Considerations: _____________
PRELIMINARY PREFERENCES
□ Burial □ Cremation □ Undecided
□ Funeral Service □ Memorial Service □ Graveside Only
□ Public Service □ Private Service □ Family Only
Veteran: □ Yes □ No □ Unknown
Organ Donation: □ Yes □ No □ Unknown
Cemetery Preference: _______________
NOTES / SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES
_________________________________________________
_________________________________________________
_________________________________________________
Follow-up Required: □ Yes □ No
Next Steps Explained: □ Yes □ No
Technology Integration Benefits
Paper-Based Intake Issues
- • Handwriting legibility problems
- • Lost or misfiled forms
- • Incomplete information
- • No automatic validation
- • Manual transcription errors
- • No backup copies
- • Difficult to search/retrieve
Digital Intake Advantages
- • Required field validation
- • Automatic data backup
- • Instant case file creation
- • Integration with other systems
- • Real-time spell check
- • Searchable information
- • Automatic follow-up reminders
Staff Training Requirements
Compassionate Communication Training
All staff taking first calls must understand grief psychology and compassionate communication techniques. Role-playing exercises with different scenarios help staff prepare for various emotional states and cultural backgrounds.
Technical Proficiency Requirements
Staff must be completely comfortable with the intake system to maintain focus on the family rather than the technology. Practice sessions with mock calls ensure fluency before handling real family contacts.
Ongoing Quality Assurance
Regular review of intake forms and periodic call monitoring ensure consistent quality. Monthly team meetings to discuss challenging cases and refine procedures maintain high standards across all staff.
Measuring Intake Success
Key Performance Indicators
Data Quality Metrics
- • Complete intake forms: Target >95%
- • Accurate information: Target >98%
- • Follow-up calls needed: Target <10%
- • Authorization issues: Target <2%
Family Experience Metrics
- • Call duration: Target 15-20 minutes
- • Family satisfaction: Target >4.5/5
- • Arrangement efficiency: Target <90 min
- • Referral rates: Target increase
Perfect First Calls with Sacred Grounds
Our guided intake system ensures complete information capture while providing compassionate communication prompts—creating positive first impressions during difficult times.